'The ground rules were safe sex, not to get seriously involved with anyone and to refrain from mutual acquaintances,' she explained. Under the terms of her new deal, Rinaldi took out an apartment, where she lived from Monday to Friday and would bed her conquests.īut over the weekend she would go back to Mansfield, and the two would live as a married couple, without asking what the other had been doing while they were apart.
'So I thought OK while we do that I need to sow some wild oats and let him do the same.' 'I was also at a marital crisis and was thinking about trying a partial separation, ' she said. She also said having 'very little sexual variety' in her youth was a motivating factor, as the fact that she was living in San Francisco, which she described as 'a very liberal city'. 'WIld oats': Robin, 50, negotiated an open marriage with her husband of 17 years, which allowed her to bed 12 strangers in 12 months - which ultimately broke her relationship
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'I have had lots of people telling me I should have travelled the world, tried painting classes or cooking – but I already know how to cook!' 'Like a lot of women at that age I was hitting my confidence and sexual peak and suddenly realised very dramatically that I wasn’t going to have children. 'If I couldn’t have one I wanted the other,' she explained. "What will I have?" I won’t have children and grandchildren. 'I looked forward to my death bed and thought. 'But when I got into my early 40s my husband got a vasectomy and I knew the discussion of having a baby was over, which kick-started this experience.' 'I would say before the year I was in a somewhat inhibited but satisfied, normal loving relationship. In Robin's book she declares, 'I refuse to go to my grave with no children and only four lovers.'īut during her year of promiscuity in 2008, she made up for lost time, sleeping with ten men and two women.Īppearing on ITV's This Morning yesterday, Robin opened up about her unorthodox decision, which she says was triggered by her husband's vasectomy. Today he's in a long term relationship with his girlfriend Renee Alexander, who he lives with and the former couple consider themselves at peace.
I had a couple of women who said to me: 'I can't believe your wife would risk losing you, you're such an awesome guy,' so when you hear that, you know, it makes you feel pretty good.' He said: 'I enjoyed the feeling of being attracted to other women and getting good feedback. And Scott says it was flattering to get attention from other women. They had a six month relationship before he eventually called it off. Account: Rinaldi describes every step of the 'project' in intimate detail in her newly-released book, The Wild Oats Project